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How to Build a Wardrobe You Actually Love: 3 Steps to Start Right Now

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Build A Wardrobe

Do you ever stand in front of your closet and feel completely uninspired? If so, you’re not alone! Many women struggle with wardrobes that don’t reflect their personal style, making getting dressed every day more stressful than it should be. But the good news? You don’t need a massive shopping spree to change that.

Today, I’m sharing three simple steps you can take right now to start building a wardrobe you love—one that truly feels like you.

Step 1: Start with a Small Declutter

Before you can build a wardrobe that works for you, you need to clear out what doesn’t. But don’t feel like you have to overhaul your entire closet overnight! Instead, start small—choose one category, like tops, jeans, or shoes, and focus just on that.

Ask yourself these three questions as you go through each piece:

  1. Do I love wearing this? If it doesn’t make you feel good, it’s time to let it go.

  2. Does it fit well and flatter my shape? Clothes should make you feel confident, not frustrated.

  3. Does this work for my current lifestyle? If it no longer fits your daily routine, it might not belong in your wardrobe anymore.

If this part feels overwhelming, I’ve got you covered! Join me for my Online Closet Detox Workshop on February 11th, where I’ll walk you through the entire decluttering process step-by-step. You can sign up HERE.

Step 2: Identify What’s Missing

Once you’ve cleared some space, it’s time to be intentional about what stays and what needs to be added. A wardrobe that works seamlessly for you isn’t just about what you remove—it’s also about making sure you have the right pieces that support your lifestyle and personal style.

Make a list of the following:

  • Everyday essentials you reach for often but don’t own in the right fit or quality.

  • Versatile staples that can mix and match easily (e.g., the perfect pair of jeans, a classic blazer, or a comfortable yet stylish dress).

  • Any statement pieces that reflect your unique personality and style.

By creating a shopping list, you’ll avoid impulse buys and instead curate a wardrobe that actually works for you.

Step 3: Create Your Style Vision

Now for the fun part—defining your personal style! If you’ve ever felt like your wardrobe is a mix of different styles with no clear direction, this step will change everything.

Take some time to gather inspiration by creating a style vision board—this could be a Pinterest board, a saved album on Instagram, or even a physical collage. The goal is to start identifying patterns in what you love. Do you gravitate towards classic and elegant styles? Chic and modern looks? Relaxed and casual outfits?

Here are a few tips to guide your vision:

  • Look for colors, silhouettes, and outfit combos that excite you.

  • Pay attention to how different textures and fabrics make you feel.

  • Think about the mood you want your outfits to reflect—confident, fun, powerful?

This process will help you shop with clarity and dress in a way that truly represents you.

 

Ready to Take the Next Step?

If you’re ready to take these steps beyond just your closet and truly transform your personal style, I invite you to join my Real Style Reset course! This 12-week program is designed to help you create a wardrobe you love, define your signature style, and step into your confidence like never before.

Get in on the pre-sale! As a founding member (only through February 9, 2025), you’ll get exclusive access at a special limited-time rate. Don’t miss this opportunity—STYLE RESET FOUNDING MEMBER SIGN UP THROUGH FEBRUARY 9, 2025! 

And if you want to get started today, download my FREE Quick Start Style Guide for even more tips on refining your wardrobe! 

Let’s build a wardrobe that makes you feel amazing—every single day! ✨

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