Dressing for the Woman You’re Becoming

We talk a lot about dressing for the life we have… but what if we flipped that?
What if we started dressing for the life—and the woman—we're becoming?
If you’re feeling off in your style, uninspired by your closet, or like you’ve drifted away from your spark… it might be because you’re still dressing for an older version of you.
And I get it—because I’ve been there.
My Story: From Power Suits to Pajama Pants (and Back Again)
When I started my career in the late '80s, I was deep in the world of corporate dress codes—think pantyhose, heels, structured suits, briefcases, and matchy-matchy accessories. My toes didn’t see the light of day for a decade.
Fast-forward 22 years: dress codes relaxed, casual Fridays crept in, and eventually jeans made an appearance. But through it all, I still took pride in how I showed up.
Then I became a high school music teacher. Different dress code, same intention. I was still “that stylish teacher,” and my students noticed. (Teenage compliments = gold.)
But then 2020 happened.
And like many of you… I slipped. Hard.
Teaching on Zoom in flannel pajama pants.
Rotating between the same jeans, graphic tees, and worn-out cardigans.
Messy bun every day. No energy. No spark. And eventually… no confidence.
When I left teaching in 2022, I hardly recognized myself.
Heavier. Tired. Frumpy. And completely disconnected from my identity.
That’s when everything shifted.
I started dressing not for where I was… but for where I wanted to go.
For the woman I knew I was becoming.
The personal stylist. The coach. The teacher. The radiant, magnetic version of me.
And when I changed the way I dressed?
My energy changed.
My confidence came back.
I came back.
Why Dressing for Your Future Self Matters
This isn’t about pretending.
It’s about becoming.
When you start dressing like the woman you want to be, something powerful happens:
You start making decisions as her.
You start showing up with her energy.
And before you know it, you are her.
I call this the Style Glow-Up Formula:
🔹 Look at your dream life
🔹 Choose outfits that match that energy
🔹 Watch your confidence skyrocket
What About You?
If your current wardrobe feels like a museum of your past, it’s time to create a new vision.
Not just on a Pinterest board—but in your daily life.
✨ Who is the next-level you?
✨ What does she wear?
✨ How does she walk, speak, move through the world?
Start dressing like her.
Even just a little.
Even if it’s just one intentional outfit a week.
And watch what happens.
Want Help With That?
This is exactly what I’m teaching inside my free live webinar:
🎉 The Style Glow-Up: Dress for the Life You Want
In it, I’ll walk you through how to reconnect with your style, elevate your energy, and step into the woman you’re becoming—with confidence, ease, and joy. Stay tuned for sign-up information!
🎁 And don’t forget to grab your free guide: 5 Shifts to Unlock Your Signature Style
You don’t need permission to become her.
You just need a mirror… and a little vision.
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